It might seem your relationship with your ex didn’t work out the first time, and what to say a second trial will fix up the broke you had the first place? Are you thinking you just toss it out and move on, right? Well, maybe not.
Just as it been said, “don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater”. There just might be a reason or two left why you should attempt to rekindle your torn up love.
If these 5 reasons below are still found, then you have to get your ex back asap.
- You’re both (still) unattached
Nothing screams ‘second chance’ louder than two unattached adults who were once in love and find that their lives are still slightly intertwined with a handful of residual feelings lurking around. If there’s no significant other who could get hurt from a getting-back-together, then looks like you’ve got an open field. Go for it.
- You still have strong feelings
Getting over an ex is difficult for most people but if getting over this particular ex is becoming a herculean task, then maybe it’s because you’re not really meant to get over this person. You don’t want to see pre-wedding photos on Instagram and start kicking yourself because deep down you know, ‘this could have been us if only I’d given us a second chance.’
- You’re not a quitter
As silly as these sounds, this is the kind of silly, dogged reasoning you’ll need to keep a marriage intact for any amount of time. I see no reason why you can’t give it a try with your relationship. Don’t be a quitter, finish what you start. If after you’ve given it your all, things don’t work out, then it is safe to declare it an impossible situation and absolve you of all ‘quitter charges.’
- No one else compares
I’ve heard tell, that the best way to get over a man, is to get under another but if all the new guys you’ve binge dated don’t help take your mind off your ex, then there’s a problem. Don’t be out here making some poor guy feel bad for not being your ex. If no one else compares, go pick your ex back up, dust him off and take him back. It’s your party (or funeral really).
- You’re still hooking up
It’s not uncommon to see two people who have declared a breakup, sneaking around the back to keep hooking up. Some people give the excuse that the intimacy was always great but everything else seemed problematic. In my opinion, if you’re going to keep messing around with your ex, just get back together and let’s all move on.
If any of these seem like a good reason to pick up back, don’t let anybody convince you otherwise. You owe it to yourself to be happy and it’s nobody’s business who you choose to be happy with.